Dear Northwestern: Stephanie Lau

Dear Northwestern,
 
It's been four years since I left my sunny and familiar California home to embark on a journey of chilly "first's" and uncomfortable "never would I have ever's" in Evanston.
 
I look back on it all and wouldn't change a thing. You have become my home. One that I identified as my own, one where I grew to know myself better, and one in which I constantly am reminded of how blessed I am to be surrounded by my family here.
 
When I arrived in Evanston, I was a shy 18-year-old who didn't know anyone—fast forward 4 years later and I have gained so many friendships that will last a lifetime. You provided me with peers, mentors, and coaches who believed in me, guided me and challenged me to think deeper, to care wider and to dream bigger.
 
I will admit my journey here hasn't been always easy though. There were moments when I doubted my capability and even times when I cried, but they were all growing pains that helped me learn more about myself. It comes as no surprise that I leave this place with a big smile, yet also a heavy heart because of how much you mean to me.
 
Thank you for creating a space for a Californian girl like me to feel warm and welcomed and to embrace the winters (both literally and figuratively). As I prepare for my journey, I will remember how you taught me to keep persevering in the tough times, to listen to people's stories and to use my gifts to help others.
 
Thank you for making me a better person, Northwestern. You'll always be my home.
 
Sincerely,
 
Stephanie Lau
Northwestern Women's Golf, Class of 2019